Hey guys are been in bigtime pressure from your mum to get married? My mum is after me for last few months to get married. She thinks i am 24 and i should get married. I am totally against it. I am going to home on this jan 2005 after 5 yrs, unfortunately, i told mum. She emails me told me that she has prepared 6 gals ready for me to choose. How stupid is that...and i regret being elder son. Man always sacrifice and sacrifice.....you have to be role model for your brother and sisters.

Guys how should i escape this things.............i hope all the six gals are member of sajha and once they see me.......they will hate me. Pls make all the six gals members of sajha.

lucky you ....six gals?

Tell them you are gay and refer them to us :)

Tell everyone you are gay (no no no just kidding)

Just tell them that you are not ready yet.....and that you don't want to choose your life partner in a hurry or just by looking at her once...or you'll end up like U day's roommate situation (if you read his post).

as much as i like jagaltaybhoot's idea, perhaps you can show all the girls the photo you posted in the who is tall thread. you can tell them you already are engaged to your japanese (?) sundari. and if you are only 24, you have plenty of time. i hope they can understand and appreciate that. either way, have a great trip to nepal! la.....

Jagaltay beat me with the first idea. We must have typed at the same time. I didn't see it.

If you don't have any choice and you must get married. Post the photos of all six girls here and start a Poll. Get married in democratic way then later on if you are not happy we'll take the blame

Seriously bro,

Why won't you marry? Do you have any unfulfilled dreams and goals? If so, I would understand you refusing to marry. If not, my suggestion is get married. Its a nice adventure. Everything will work out fine. I am married, and I am very happy with my life. Lovely wife, good job, and great family - I couldn't be happier more. I actually like this life more than my college life of drinking and swapping girls.

I agree with strings bro. very true. Life's not just about having fun. and what we think fun is most of the time time waste. it's like you are supposed to get into a bus that is supposed to go to west but you've been exploring around in the buses that are going to north and south and east. So , practically you're wasting time.
I have not yet married , but i think marriage is a good thing given that you're responsible to handle your life and your spouce's life. Moneyminded bro, looks like you're in good standing :economacallly, mentally, socially, physically.. i think you should certainly think about this matter seriously....
I personaly think that playing around is a waste of time. the more you play around the more you'll have problems to find and fall into intimate relationship.... Also, i think that our life has become difficult with too many choices.. it's like so many decisions for us and so much stress.. but marriage is very important aspect of your life and if you think you're ready then i think you should certainly go for it..

Hi moneyminded and fellows!
I don't know much about saying anything comes of with suggestion, I guess, the true love comes only once in your life time, so don't get married soon. Tell them that you have to get married to Kali for getting greencard, at first, then after having greencard you will go for real marriage with a Nepali girl. Don't forget our cultures!!!!!!, we do marry first then love that your mum knows. But, you live in the place, the USA, that you love first, then marry. It is your future, you have to decide........... don't argue to everybody, they probably kidding around. If you are not allowed to wait by your family just show them your black-GF's snaps............
thank you

Gallant bro......from the various post, I assume that Moneyminded is not from US.....so there is no greencard....(or is there?)

on the second thought and lighter note.......moneyminded bro........you have a "buffet" of six girls.....enjoy the buffet.....(that's what one of my co-workers told me when I told him that I will be heading back to Nepal and I have to choose from few girls)........


And bedrock bro....where do you get those small creatures........

Regards....

Ram Prasad

yeah, bedrock, ahileko sano saathi aba maobaadi hune ho ki?
as much as i love those little guys, i don't think you should give away your secret.

"A BUFFET"?! that's awful! sounds like something my old college roommate would say.

hey Palpali bro- that guy is Moneyminded bro shooting us when he finds out he got married to someone by our peer pressure and later not getting along with her.

Ram Prasd bro these little creatures are my sano sathis (like PG called them) and i don't think they's appreciate their wherabouts. They don't want no telemarketers calling them.

Moneyminded, once again think about it many many times before making that decision of life. You are very young. You only get wiser with age.

MM broda!
Take a decision of your own!
Say your past to that 6 gals (as u did wrote in sajha...)
Problemo solved!
Foe

Ha Ha Ha......Run Faster MM bro.

By the way, don't introduce yourself to the girls like " Hi, I am Moneyminded Bro, Do you want to marry me?"

LOL!! haha gay bhandau bro, tell them u r gay, like JB and Bedrock said..

yes, DO NOT GET MARRIED NOW..your still young dude, i dont know if i will ever marry, but if i do, it will only be after when i reach 40..

why, after 40? coz till then you will have experienced all there is to experience abt girls and life, so you will probably make urself the best husband too, becoz you will know how to compromise..

ppl that i have seen and met and known, who are divorced and married again, exprience there second marriage to be better than thte first one, because they learn to compromise so much things on second marriage and many ppl agree that their first marriage was just to early.... Dude, and i think you still have alot to learn and explore..

Hahaha... confused!! timi sanchi nai confused chau!

According to statistics from the Stepfamily Association of America, even though 75 percent of divorced persons will eventually remarry, 60 percent of remarriages end in divorce -- an even higher rate than that of first marriages. :) So i don't know where u got the info about people being able to better compromise after their divorce.

But u are right bout not getting married if you're not ready for commitment. Well neways.. on a personal note tho... if u get married wen ur 40.. khai aba u might only get blonde goldiggers:P who be only after ur money! hahaha.. neways didn't know why i decided to post.. but i felt i just had to say something:)

hey moneyminded

if i am not mistaken u already have a gf, so u shud tell the 6 gals abt her.
I think the 6 gals may refuse to marry u if they heard abt ur extra curricular activities ;)

Malai ta tyo keti ko bhagya dekhera daya lagcha yaar...

Bichara MM bro!

Tehi ta bhaneko " poor gal will waste her life with me" i am drink, smoke and take drugs

i think i got best idea........i am going to tell parents that i smoke weed.

Bro thanks for suggestion but if i say i am gay........my grandfather will have heartattack on spot.