I have been with my gf for 5 years. Last year we decided to move in together, and right now there are talks of tying the knot. Since we started living together last year, I have been getting bored of being with her. The spark is not there at all. She is a very nice girl and I don't want to hurt her, but I'm not happy being with her anymore. I don't know if she would be able to recover if she knew what I really feel thesedays. I feel like I'm not myself because I constantly have to act as if I am in love when I'm not. What should I do??

Its too late dude, Tied the knot. Thats your last option

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Are you bored with your mom,dad, brother and sister too ???? Or perhaps you are acting with them too just being a good son and brother with your daily dose of act???

why are you not happy when she is very nice...something must be wrong with you.go to counsellor.....they will help you......

How ca u say tht?? u r bored wid her .. what if she says she's bored wid u n leave u for no reason then wht will u feel?? guys r always stupid.. they just want change..ha..always..

Mary gal,
Its not GUYS always. Its him in person not me. Pls watch before u write.
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This is so weird. What if GRK is the boyfriend of Mary Gal or some other girl that visits sajha????

This is so weird. What if GRK is the boyfriend of Mary Gal or some other girl that visits sajha????

how can you kill somebody's feelings like that? you chose to love her, you cant just leave her now but in the other hand, if shes strong and if you DONT love her anymore then try to explain her nicely which means you're breaking her heart.. or else you're gonna spoil both of your lives if you put up like this.. thats why i never take decisions without thinking more than twice~

NANI AAIN AABA. AABA SABAI CHUP LAGA NANI LAI BOLNA DAU

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Ever wondered if she also feels the same and has been doing so because she pities you? Man you need to talk to her about how you feel. You don't have to be together if you are not happy with each other, but pretending that you are.
I am sure she will listen to you and you can solve your problem together.
All the best dude.

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Levelhead she's planning the marriage every day thesedays. She doesn't feel like I do. Otherwise I would not be in this spot.

why are you bored with her? is it the sex life or something else ? ;)

YO GRK,

YOU ARE ANOTHER MURKHA MANUSHYA IN THE LINE...

WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU SAYING. YOU HAD BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR 5 FREAKKING YEARS, USED HER, DID EVERYTHING AND NOW WHEN THE TIME HAS COME TO SHOW SOME COMMITTMENT, YOU WANT TO RUN AWAY LIKE A BHUSIYA KUKUR?

I M SORRRY, BUT YOU ARE ONE HYPOCRITE BIG TIME. GUYS LIKE YOU HAVE INSULTED LOVE AND COMMITMENT THAT A GAL EXPECTS FROM A GUY.

SHAME ON YOU

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I don't buy this. How can you get bored with someone you LOVE? I think, there is more to this story. COm'n tell us. You are in love with someone else right?

Don't get MAD...just a simple question

This GRK guy is a typical WAM BAM thank you maam kind of a guy. Women need to be careful of these pricksssssssssssssss.

you know what????/ some of the guys r like this, they get tired of their wives and girlfriends and flirt withothersss!!!!!!11 and then when they need help they go back to their wives with a puppy face! shame on these guyz

I am in similar situation too but it is other way round. I have been in relationship with a girl for 5 years. everythign was going perfect. we were always happy. we lived together for sometime but because of education, we now are living in different state. everybody including our parents, friends and close relatives knows about it and i have already met with her parents too. parents were happy for us.

suddenly about a month ago, i came to know that she is having an affiar with another guy. she cheated on me. how can she do that to me? i love her so much that i gave her everything i could. she knows it. she knows that i love her so much. but now she is just making excuses saying she is not happy becasue we are far. i do not listen to her and all. truth of the matter is, everybody who knows us knows that how much i love her and i always tried to make her happy. i could not believe that she did this to me. it was a biggest shock for me and i am totally broken. i always thoght that she is my life and everything. i am in depression now. i requested her to come back to me. her family has also asked her to come back to me and resolve any issue if she has with me. but she is so arrogant that she said she does nt care what other says. but i still want her. how can i pursue her to come back. is there anyways i can convince her. she is totally brain washed and does nt want to listen to anyone except that new guy in her life. she does whatever he says. she is playing with so many lifes at one time. what can be done so that she will come back to me?? suggestion please?

Read Quest's question!
I think the problem is you and not her, and in that case you will never be happy with anyone. If you want a permanent solution to this, CHANGE YOURSELF. Come in terms with reality. If you want a temporary solution, let go of that girl. She deserves someone better than you.

Aznshawty... it's not some of the guys.. it's all of them..everyone wants to go around and get new one the every other day...