i'd been living with this guy for months...years....and never realised he's just a jerk...an @SS
does all the guys visit porn sites regularly.....
sending his pics to unknown girls....
awwww
i feel disgusted
n the part i hate....we've been together for years now. even if i try, can't forget this guy easily.
he was my first love... n hoped wuld be my last.....until i found out whats he doing lately..
i feel terrible

girls like jerrks

help! how do i get him out of my life. it sucks. i really love him. n it's not easy to undo that love....
can i ever find a decent guy in my lifetime?? or is it just me?

why does he go to those websites...chat with those unknown ppl n...call them? n hide everything frm me?
just don't know...what should be my next step...
can't even talk to frens...all my fresns know him well, like him. hell we have all common frens. n they really think we'd get married soon. don't wan't to pour my heart to them.
-confused, sad n lonely

it's not that we like jerks.... i really thought he was a decent guy. he's funny, smart n evverything. he was really sweet when he was in nepal. he's changed totally after he came here. and i'm still the same ol nepali gurl..in love.

Some suggestions:
1) Talk to your guy. Communication is important. You should tell him how you feel about it and he should explain his behavior/ respect your feeling.
2) But you should give your guy some freedom. Visiting porn sites might be a problem, but chatting and talking with other people is not big of a deal (unless it means he is really boared with you).
3) As long he loves you and is faithful, some compromise is worthwhile.
4) But if he repeatedly disrespects and hurts you, leave him. I know its difficult, but being in a disrespectful relationship is more painful and an absolute waste of life. Things will get complicated if you wait longer.

Dr. Killerspin.

I am not Jerk....

Would you like to hang out with me for sometime and see If I am the right person for you.....

You never know.....I might be the right person and you moght be my right person....

We can hang out in phone to....We really dont have to meet at first since there might be issue about trust!!!!!

Let me know....
Send me your phone no through private message..I will respond you....

99.99% OF GUYS ARE LIKE DAT. TRUST ME.

nah bro...tho i watch porn..im faith ful.......:D:D:D

I think time to revisit for sexual life............Perhaps get into role play, wip, Handcuff, high heels, Stockings..........tame him ...get over him...
May be he is not getting what he has in mind?

Infact i should be complaning this to my wife as well..................................................

may be i am wrong

some ppl has big sexual appetite and they want to see fantasy. Too much of porn is bad, i do confess......but i still watch porn in her absense coz it is better than real sex.

single wannabe:

so you just came from nepal and found out all this? or have u been in the US (or wherver u you are tight now)...for a while with him and only recently found out?

Well, to let you in n the butter truth, most guys AND girls do visit porn site, if their sigle and just wanna check things out once in a while, but if they're in a relationship, then that's a bit sad.

I would talk to him and first request him to not do that.
If he doesnt listen, I'd be upfront with him and TELL him not to do it.
AND FINALLY, if he doesn't let go of that habit, ID DUMP HIS ASS!!!

There's way more nicer Nepali guys than him. Don't feel sad or anything. He'll be the one who'll miss out, not you. You should move on.

And this is coming from a guy here.

It is very usual for a guy to watch porn regularly ( and even masturbate) even when they are fully loyal and satisfied by their partner.
Regarding calling other unknown girls, that is a little too much. You can work that out with proper communication. May be he is just careless about your company. Talk to him, and make him realize rather than dumping him. I bet no guys are better.

well, visiting porn sites is NOT necessarily bad thing...but if he talks to random people in your absence and do not tell you ...that may be something to think about...so talk to him...resolving issues by serious conversations is far better than running away and hurting yourself internally .......

Sounds like the cat in question is short in $$ ! - just a speculation based on probability of the community in question.

try : voyeurweb.com - amatures only.

i thought visiting porn sites was a good thing. he will be good in bed with you. may be you should visit some sites then u will know a thing or two about sex. right now i guess your bf is suffering coz u r so bad at it. please do the second guy u find a favor and visit some of the porn sites u found on ur bf's computer

I like sexy jerks.

If my guy does that to me, I'll do the same to him, srsly.
Wot I think is that you should dump him right away, he doesn't deserve you or I guess tell him his mistakes, who knows, he might realise too. ;]

single wannabe...i know when im not speakn for all the male species in the world..just me and some others who are a bit like me ;oP...but i guess we guys are naturally jerks?i mean duh!i mean we def be jerking here and there and before we know it smtimes even when we dun mean/want to..we end up being jerks ;oP...

basically crystalcracker kinda might know wat im tryn to imply..

anyways the part about sending his pics to other gals might def cause anyone doubts about their relationship..it kinda seems like the person is cheating behind ur back?..good luck with that..and watever decision u come to..hopefully u take a bit of time(a bit of talkn and clarifyin with him?) before u decide on wat to do?and def think a bit more about urself too when deciding?(oh i know some ppl who thinks about others more than themselves..and always aint that happy..cant please everyone can we?:oS hehe)

plus about the pron stuffs..im sure he will get sick of it sooner of later..when we have too much of anything we do tend to get a bit sick of it?;oP hehe..maybe if u talk with him and after the discussion he will try to change a bit?i mean he wouldnt know wat is makin u mad if u dun let him know hoina?ok ok before someone goes on telln me im being a sexist and siding a jerk..but well smtimes a jerk cant stop feeln another jerk aint that bad as we are thot of..hoina?;oP


good luck and good day!
(got more time to kill so herum ke ke bhakwash share garnu shakcha today ;oP)