Let us hear it. How would you respond if you were to receive this e-mail from a Nepali nari with whom your "kurakani" had in the past?

I think you might have heard my name before. But you might not remember my name. Is this the way to deal with any girl? What these guys think of themselves? Once they get chances to go to abroad they just forget Nepali society. They think that they have touched the sky, moon star etc etc. Among those guys you are the one. What you think of nurses? You just think that they get job easily there so you are searching Nepali nurses though you have girlfriend there. If you have girlfriend there why couldn't you tell that to your brothers before entering to any girls home.
If you have girlfriend there then is it manly to send photos with brother and took photos from here. Is this the way to go to anyone's home (unknown people)? I feel pity and I am very sorry to those Nepali girls who become happy to marry with those guys (who just loss there bachelorism).
I hope you will just remind this to your family members? And will prevent repeating such great mistakes again and again.
These all responses are based on the information provided by your family members.
Keep these things in your mind. One day the third person might be born(child). If this things happen to your child then what will you do? If you have born to be a man and wants to be a man forever then you sit and think and send me the reply for this.

Purush

Actually, I don't want to bring that part to anyone's attention though it is obvious. The level of English proficiency depends upon which school one went to. I came from a school where I started my "A, B, C, D,......" at grade 4. I am not that good in English too. It also depends upon what you expect from a nurse working in Nepal. I would say not bad.
That is not what we all are concentrating here. I wanted to how you guys would deal in such a situation?
I am thrilledd to have a lot of comments and suggestions though.

"To be fair purush, your whole idea of marrying is like recruitng an employee in ur company...get rid of it ...go n find somebody who matches with you and ur feelings..I am sure u will have somebody just right for you and vice versa."

How would you marry if you were not in love, Sense? I liked your idea, that is exactly what I wanted to do. How would you know some had the same feelings? I believe you know our arranged marriage system very well. I have couple of friends who didn't even see ladies before they got married. They flew from America and got married with the ladies their families found for them. They all relied on resume bro. All they had seen were the resume and some scanned pictures. This is what is happening bro.