For those girlfriendless like me,can you give some tricks to approach a girl? ...

SORRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! never believed in girlfrd.......so never had one........but love to see some postings .........just to try ........

Easy...

Open your pant and show your gutts to become good husband.

If you do not have good gutts, do not try hard.

Because she will kick you out sooner or later... dude

Well, I have some advice..this is how I approached your mother...I ran up to the big biatch humped her leg and then I just hit it raw....soon thereafter, you were born..and I ran away..the end.

This will be helpful.................???????????????

Melissa,
I have a situation which is in extreme need of some advise. My name is Jared I`m 16 and there is a girl that lives about a mile away from me. She is gorgeous. But for the life of me I can`t think of how to introduce myself to her. She doesn`t go to the same school as me, so i have only seen her once. Truthfully I never knew she even lived there. Now I want to get to know her, but I am shy so i don`t want to just knock on the door and say what`s up, nor do i want to wait until she is outside or something. If I do go to the door or her house what could I say.

Sincerely

Jared



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Melissa answers:

Hi Jared,

Thanks for writing to me! Let`s see if I can give you some help with the situation you wrote to me about below.

Okay, so you don`t know this girl, but do you happen to know ANYONE in her neighborhood that could at least tell you who she is and a little about her? Since you`ve only seen her once she may have just moved in recently (though sadly she could have just been visiting). Obviously you need to make driving past her house part of your daily routine. You don`t want to stalk her, but do drive by after school casually and see if you can see her again...and if you do? You`re going to have to be brave my dear young man and introduce yourself. You`re going to have to get out of your car, or off your skateboard or bike, and walk up and say "Hi, my name`s Jared and I just wanted to say you`re really attractive" and then you`re going to smile charmingly and LEAVE.

Don`t stare, don`t stammer, and don`t hang out unless she makes it clear she wants to talk... but even if she does want to hang out and talk, make it short and sweet. Tell her a place you hang out regularly and that it would be cool to hang out there together sometime. If you can get her email address or telephone number GREAT, but stay! Leave quickly so she`ll want more of you not less! Make sense? Okay, go for it!

All the best,

Melissa

maya launi ho,
it is funny how your nickname and the comments you make sound...hm....desperate.
as for your question, do you already have someone in mind or are you ready to pursue any random girl?

maya launi ho, ma timilai maya garchu bhandyou na, kurai sidyo ni..kina yetro jhanjhat!

your name has it all, it just questions! easy but I think the best way to get anyone's attention is just go the complete opposite way, be kinda rude to them intetionally and ignore most of the time, that helps and im serious! OR if you're like the other person that don't know how to ignore or be rude just keep making eye contacts and laugh off at anything she says and talk to her, make her laugh, things like that...

Lfc123 and DC girl ji, aja samma yeso herirahechhu,tara yehi bhanera thammauna sakeko chhaina.Afu lai jo dekhe pani ramro lagchha.K garne manta chha ali dhanga chhaina.

"ma timilai maya garchu bhandyou na, kurai sidyo ni."

What would be the average number of times one has to say, to ONE girl? Tyo pani bhandeu ta...

Even if he gets stuck on saying-and-getting-no-response situation, he will be one step ahead.

Hoina ra?

Never go to a girl and say "ma timilai maya garchu"....well only if you are desperate and needy...you'll only drive them away...beautiful girls always get that.. girls like guys who make them laugh.....goofy yet sweet...be unpredictable.....here's one way......

"Go up to the person and ask for their hand. Draw a line across it and explain that its a really big river, and the bunny on this side (doesn't matter) really needs to get to the other side. Ask how he does it. Give cute little answers as to why the bunny can't cross the river (ie...bunny jump in river, bunny go *glubglubglub*.) When the person finally asks how the bunny is supposed to get across, give them the cute puppy eyes and say "I don't know, I just wanted to hold your hand."

You just have to be yourself. No one should pretend being someone he is not. That is the best way of finding a true partner

My advice:

If you are fooling around with a girl for sex then say it out right and be honest.

If you looking for a life partner then be serious and also let her know honestly.

It is a practical world these days and no one will end up with a broken heart or cheated.........

kiwigal wrote:
"If you are fooling around with a girl for sex then say it out right and be honest."
Seriously......Isn't that the time they call you a pervert?

Just be yourself.... if she's intrested well and good.... if not let her gooo

From behind. And then ask her to bend over.

.courtesy yotube and i_nepali from his thread

walk up to the girl and say "I love you" .

the worse situation she would say,.............either way, its worth trying.....


I still remember a friend of mine who proposed a girl who he knew and used to talk to her. Here it what happened:
He says" $$$$$$$ i LOVE YOU"
She said " go to hell"
His reply " will you be there?"

This way you could still show that you are still serious on her....maybe like a hindi movie...:P

Best way to approach a girl is by becoming a good listener. Just listen to her story without judging her and try to make her feel good. You need to be a good friend before asking her out. Try this if you want a serious relationship. For one night stand, just buy her a drink and ask her for a dance. Do not stare at her boobs.

Let's be honest, approaching women isn't easy. It can be awkward, embarrassing, and downright difficult. But, like most things in life, if you know what you are doing it's easier and with a little practice you can get pretty dang good at it.

When approaching women you should concentrate on three things :

setting her at ease

impressing her

getting her number

All else is optional. I'm assuming that the whole reason you are approaching this girl is to get her number so that you can pursue her further. Let's take a closer look :

Setting her at ease…

Why is this important ? Women get approached more than you think by weirdos and perverts. For this reason, women automatically put up their defenses when a guy approaches them. They become more critical and irritable. How do you get her to drop these defenses? Be friendly, smile, and keep the mood light. If you are nervous, she is going to know that you are trying to pick her up.

Also, don't try to "pick her up." Most likely she thinks that is the only reason you are talking to her so don't act like you are trying to pick her up. Just carry on a conversation, chat, make jokes, heck, don't be afraid to disagree with her, tease her… anything goes. Treat her like you would anybody else and she will notice and drop her barriers.

Impressing her…

Obviously, if a girl is going to get her interest up. When you ask a girl for her phone number she is thinking "Do I really want this guy calling my house?" Basically, she decides how much she likes you. The guys that don't impress her get rejected the one's she is interested in get the number.

Impress women ?
Well, it sounds strange but the best thing you can do is let her talk about herself. Keep the conversation focused on her as much as possible. Letting her take control of the conversation ensures she won't get bored, let's you learn more about her, and keeps you from saying something stupid. You can't lose !

Do NOT make the mistake of talking about yourself in an effort to increase her interest. It does NOT work that way.

Also, don't drag the conversation out any longer than necessary. Get her interest up and then get out of there…

Get women phone number…
Ahh, the moment of truth. Inevitably it will come time to part ways and when it does give her the 'ol "Can I get your phone number?" (or some variation thereof). DO IT!!! Don't chicken out.

To improve your chances of success don't wait for an awkward lull in the conversation. Make her laugh and then pop the question. Also, give her a reason to give you her number. For example, instead of saying, "Can I get your number?" say, "Can I get your number so that we can do something this weekend?" or, "I'd like to get in touch with you again, can I get your number?" You get the idea. This will improve your chances IF you managed to impress her.

In the end, approaching women is a numbers game. A certain percentage of women will already be taken, another percentage doesn't give out their phone number (no matter who asks), a certain percentage isn't interested, but there is, of course, a certain percentage that will give you their number. It may not be a high percentage but there IS a percentage.

Don't be frustrated because you approached 5 girls and none of them gave you their number. I have coached hundreds of men on how to be successful with women. On average, most guys will get rejected 4 out of 5 times. But, that means that if you approach 25 women a week you will get 5 numbers. Don't get frustrated.

Now, you are thinking "This is all fine and dandy but how do I start a conversation? That's the hard part." Well, there is no magic bullet I'm afraid. With practice it will become easier but I won't leave you with nothing.

Here's an opening line that works very well for me
"Why do you look so sad ?" or "Why do you look so happy ?" (depends on how she looks of course). Say it with confidence, with a big smile on your face and it will work well. Give it a try … you'll be pleasantly surprised at how well it works.

This works well for two reasons

It is an open ended question. It demands more than a yes or no answer so it will get her talking and leave you with the opportunity to ask more questions.

It will set her at ease. It's not a traditional, cheesy pick up line.