Should you marry the one you love or the one that loves you ?

Not necessary, but if there is love between the two then why should they live separately? Can they bear the pain?
Think...

Always, always and always remember tie your knot with the person who loves not the one you love, if you want to spend the rest of your life being happy and not worrying about sacrifices and compromises that you have to make..

LOVES YOU***

Love is not simply an attraction...its lot deeper than that...love is not enough for a marriage to last...make sure you guys have similar future plans...similar outlook of life...and make good money. Money is one touchy subjects that becomes a huge issue after marriage...I can write a book about love, relationship and marriage...any buyers??

the one u love
because at the end u wanna fell like u ended up with the one u really want to be with and someone u think is worthy of u. u know.

aafno manche..i must say thats a very interesting question,,,but at the same time its almost obvious that one should be with who love them rather than whom they love because of very simple reason...when you love someone, you are an individual for the whole world but when someone loves you, you are the whole world for that individual...
i wish someone loved me too

aarya,
hmm.. is that book going to be for 10 years old too (O: or should i say the range would be 8-16 (O:

DEPENDS ON MONEY...... IF HE IS RICH I WILL MARRY HIM!!
MONEY IS THE MOST IMPORTANT NOT THE LOVE!!

whichever u want

sajhakohero ho ki sajhako heroin ????

BATAS DAHLING WHY YOU WANNA KNOW ALSO HA........................
HOW MUCH $$$$$$$$$$$$$ DO YOU MAKE DAHLING???

y do u wanna know?????????????
i wont marry if u r sajhako heroin also...................

actually i was just wondering naam chahi hero
but talk like girl sooooooooo

aiya i am shy now.....................
hehehehehe!!

marry the one who is HOT .... forget about love. I wonder why people are after love.

Thanks guys for the responses...

I used to believe that you should marry the one that you love. But it may not make the perfect relationship unless the other person also loves you. Without any doubt, the marriage is perfect if both partners love each other. But I was kind of trying to get some idea from SajhaLand what should one do if both sides don't have equal affection for each other.

The consensus looks like you should go with the one that loves you. For a simple reason that you don't have to sacrifice a whole lot to get satisfaction, coz your partner takes care of that. And when you have such a loving partner who the hell cannot be satisfied and run the life smoothly.

yekloyatri, gunda, and sa54, we all have the same feelings, thank you for sharing your ideas.
aarya, you made a good point, but sometimes life is bigger than money, and money cannot buy happiness, at least for some.

Well done batas jiu (or should i say Miss Batas Jiu !!) for showing SajhakoHero the dust under his pants. Sorry SajhakoHero.. if you're offended ....

Thanks for everyone who posted, and for those who would like to post with their own thoughts about the issue.....

Cheers ;)

people change, so both loves are indeed uncertain...