I really don't like to be taken for granted. Sometimes I feel as if I am being ill treated, not ill treated exactly but as if my boyfriend is taking me for granted and kind of ignoring me. If I weren't serious about him , I wouldn't have cared so much and forgotten him by now, but I really think that I'm in love. Friends, advise me what to do.

Mansion - i disagree with you!! how can you talk to someone and tell them how you feel and try to force them to love you and treat you right?? seriously that's some bs ke!! ufffff!!!

Miss Nails...where did i mention anything about forcing him to love her or treat her right.
so what r u disagreeing with.

since when is it wrong, to sit down and talk, about how each other feel, shi*t happens, you just dont dump a guy/girl and move on....dont you think communication is imp, well then what exactly is communication to you.....sometimes there is no problem in a relationship, but how we react to certain things creates a problem...all i was saying is sit down and talk, just dont come to the conclusion and dump him.

i am not saying..what he's doing is right, but also at the same time, he might not realized what he's doing is making her feel dismayed and ignored.

anyways, hope things work out for her,all the best wishes.

mansion - okay this is what you said ke:
girl what you need to do is, make him sit his as*s down, and talk to him, you gotta let him know how you feel about the things he does, and stuff like that.

according to this she's trying to tell him how she feels but my point why is she doing that when he doesn't even care and is ignoring her in the first place ke!! you can't force stuff on people!! uffff!!

uffff nevermind.

mansion - why are you giving up now?? don't say that ke!!! nevermind re? uffff!!
explain it to me what you mean ke maybe i am not getting what you're trying to say ke!! :S

fine ignore me then!!

Let me just announce it to everyone then:
mansion is a ignorer!!! ahem ..ahem...so you know this whole thread was started cause of people who enjoy ignoring other people!!

exactly (wink,wink) :P

whats there to explain, i've already explained myself above answering your comments.cant help it if you intrepreted in your own way, and assumed that i meant, she needed to force him to love him.

well anyways, we just have diff views. have a great evening.

mansion - haha!! we're good now ke!! :P just for the fact that you replied after i announced that you were a ignorer is good enough for me ke!!

yeah i think we have different views maybe cause of the gender thing ke!! you are a male right?? :S haha!!

oh and yeah, after the proof here let me announce ke:
mansion is not a ignorer after all!! :)

you have a nice evening too ke!! and don't ignore people ke!! :P just kidding! (wink,wink) :)

yes i am a male,but i dont think the difference in our perception has anything whatsoever to do with gender.

i believe that when things dont go right, for whatever reason, whose ever fault it is, ppl should try to work it out. like i said, sometimes we all do things and we dont realize that our signifacnt other might be hurt, or woudlnt like it, sometimes we do things unintentionally.

you cant say ..oh i love this guy/girl sooo much, and when things are bad,,u just dump him, if you love someone, try to work things out, talk..talk..talk....its always not about how much other loves you, sometimes you have to know yourself, how much you love him/her, and yes, when one day you wake up, and look at the mirror and just know that you've loved the person with all your heart, with everything there is to make a person feel complete, and you've tried and done your best, then yes you move on, but pleaseeeeeeeee dont take a haste decision, your lost love might be your true one.

all it takes is a lil effort to make something beautifull into something elegant, and every couple should that to each other.

its one thing to fall in love...thats the easy part, to make them feel loved is is a diff story, and to make your love work out in long term...well that needs, effort, persistence, understanding, compromsing, being their for each other and moral.

mansion - muaaaaaaahhhhhhhh!!
okay i understand what you mean now!! but you weren't this clear before ke you just said talk to them and i was like what the .....???
anyways i totally agree with you this time!! :) :)

and see you talk and not ignore!! haha!! good boy! (wink,wink) :)

but but if talking doesn't work PB you better move on ke!! :)

muahhhhhh huh

god nails, your lips feels so soft, everfelt the moist on the rose leaflet early in the spring morning, yahhhh kinda like that.

well smile, you never know whose heart you might conquere.

mansion - lol!! :P :P

by the way are you single?? :P (wink,wink)

not anymore , not after kissing you.

mansion - hahaha!! so that's a yes right?? ;)

nails common, it shouldnt be that hard to figure out the meaning of that, aba tesma pani, i dont agree chai navana hai please.

mansion - haha!! i agree ke!! (wink,wink) :P

alright i think i have to go write someone an email now!! ahem..ahem..!! :P
mansion you are gonna reply back right?? :P cause you know ignorers are bad ke!! :)

ok nails, have fun writing your e:mail.

and dont worry, i'll try not to ignore you, how bout i just pop up in your dreams tonight.

that would be nice!! :P

yup..hope your lips will be as soft in your dreams too.

ahem ahem...congrats to both of you :D....

Nails thanks for agreeing with me ke! :). And from what PB said, it sounded like the guy didn't really care abt her. And I'm assuming that he didn't in the past too. So if it is really true, then there is no sense in wasting her precious time with him, trying to convince him ke.

And if she ends the relationship and if the guy really loved/cared about her, he'll come running after her. If he never loved her, he won't. Then she'll see if he really was her true love or not.

But if, it(the fact that the guy didn't love her) is not true, then, ofcourse she has to discuss the matter with him. And then make up her mind.

Hey friends,

Thanks a lot for all of your advices. I really appreciate that all of you tried to help me out.

Regards,
PB